What is this website all about? In short, resolving complex logical and emotional disagreements between loved ones. We suggest you start by reading What is the Art of Unlearning? and then the About Us page to understand the gist of it. After that, you’ll want to know more about our (his & hers) backstory. We also suggest you brush up on our Unlearning vocabulary. We cover turbulent topics and the effective ways to diffuse (but not ignore) them.
These topics are messy and guttural. They have the potential to destroy relationships of all kinds: parent-child, sibling, spousal and so forth. Our goal is to strengthen friendships and families through hard conversations, devout listening and loving correction. We hope you’ll join us, no matter the exact details of your struggle. If you want to hear and be heard, you’re in the right place.
History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced
Maya Angelou, 1993
with courage, need not be lived again.
It takes courage to be here. We know that. It’s frustrating, intimidating, scary. Believe in your journey. Have faith that you’ll figure it out. It’s not over yet. And now, you’re not alone.